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Coming to a GUM clinic can be a difficult journey to make for many. The prospect of going through an examination of your private parts, having blood taken and talking to complete strangers about the intimate details of your sex life can be a daunting one.

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Staff are well aware of how embarrassing it can feel to come to a clinic. That is why they are specially trained to give you care and attention of the highest quality. It vital that you are treated with dignity and respect. Your individual needs should be met with great sensitivity.

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GUM clinics operate under strict guidelines of confidentiality set down by Parliament. You therefore should be able to confidently approach them with any concern safe in the knowledge that staff will work hard to protect your interests.

A GUM clinic plays a vital part in controlling the spread of sexually transmitted infections. Not everyone who uses them will have such a condition but many do. It is an unfortunate fact that some infections can be present without any obvious signs or symptoms. So it is quite common for someone to have an infection and not know anything about it. Without treatment a few of these infections (though not all) can lead to more serious health problems. By this stage it can be very difficult to sort out complications that might have occurred. It is for this reason that you may be asked about current or previous sexual partners.

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The more people who are given the opportunity to have a check-up the less chance there will be of picking up an infection in the first place. It is also of little value in having tests and treatment if a regular partner is not assessed at the same time. This may only lead to re-infection and the problem returns and possibly worsens.

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Clinic Health Advisers are present to help you talk in detail about your situation. Not only can they help you to better understand what has been going on with your treatment and care but they can assist you to work out the best way to approach sexual partners. It is crucial that you feel in control of any decisions taken and that the best solution is found. One should never feel pressurised into giving information against your will.

So how can partners be encouraged to attend a clinic?

Health advisers will help you to work out how far to go back in assessing which partners should be seen. This will vary according to the condition you have and your own individual circumstances. It may be helpful to rehearse with them how to phrase things or introduce the topic into the conversation. You may be given a printed piece of paper called a ‘contact slip’ to pass on to a partner. This should be taken to their local clinic and will greatly assist them in getting the correct tests and possibly treatment.

The health adviser may ask you if you would be prepared to give any details of partners. This can be as much as you know or are prepared to reveal at this stage. We appreciate that talking to partners past and present about infection risks can be extremely hard. Understandably some choose not to do it and this is where clinic staff can help. Partners can be contacted discreetly by them or from another GUM clinic without divulging your details. You may not have full information about them but progress can sometimes be made with incomplete facts.

Summary.

Sexually transmitted infections can often be treated easily and effectively if they are dealt with swiftly. Many people with some infections will not realise they have a problem. GUM clinics exist to treat individuals with tact and sensitivity. The Health Advisers in particular can help in seeing that partners are invited to attend. This approach has enormous potential in not only safeguarding the sexual health of the individual but ensuring the risk of encountering infections is significantly lowered.

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